Exhusband says I won't find a nice guy like him. True or false?

[beyondcrushed]

A man doing everything for you, although nice, still isn't everything. It sounds like you were never romantically into him like he was with you. You developed feelings for him over time, but you were never in love with him and that is what you need to have a lasting marriage. You'll meet another man whom you do have those feelings for and don't feel the need to measure him up to your ex. Sometimes it is annoying when men are too clingy to a woman, because they are so afraid she will leave. My mom was telling me the exact same thing about my husband when our relationship was on the rocks. You can really care about someone, but no matter how much they do for you...if you're not in love, it's not gonna work.

 

Your mom is right. Sad, but true. Hard lesson learned.

[NYWoman]

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I wish you luck in finding that some one.

 

 

My reality after the holiday fiasco, is that once again I was settling for second best. Like you I am once again available for new adventures.