twinkie0 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 So I was dating this girl I really liked, definitely the first time I could actually say I fell in love, as corny as that sounds. Long story short, we split because she wanted to. I insisted on goiing out again (something I regret in retrospect. I should have let it be, at least for a while). We went out once and since we held hands I was sure I had her back, but then she called it off for good. But we got to talking again. She said she felt I had taken things too fast. I kinda resented her for not being straightforward with me if she felt that way. Anyway, we haven't gone out again yet (this happened right before finals, now we're on vacation), but we talk a lot and she texts me hearts every now and then. I know that it sounds silly, but she hadn't done that since we were going out, 6 months ago, that is. Now I'm really nervous. I'm a rather confident guy but I really don't want to screw things up. Don't just say "take it slow, then". I mean, that's pretty obvious. But how do I go about doing that? Do I avoid physical contact? Do I try not to talk about anything serious? Please help
thehero101 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 The ball is in her court. Let her be the one to make physical contact first, let her be the one to do things first.It will give you a better idea of what she thinks of you and stops you from things to fast again 1
mmmburrito Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Meanwhile... do things for you. Go to the gym, travel, create something. Do things that make you happy, complete you, make you a better you. If you take care of your own house, so to speak, all the better if she comes back... ...or you become ready to look elsewhere. Good things either way.
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