johnpennington Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I reconnected with this girl I went to elementary with and i'd like to date her or at least reconnect and become friends again. we were friends a loooong time ago. we're both in our early 20s now. I added her on facebook and we had a little over an hour long conversation from about 12:30 in the morning to about 2 in the morning. The conversation was running smooth and friendly. At about 2 AM, She didnt respond to a message so I assumed she went to sleep, come to find out she responded the following morning which probably meant she did fall asleep. anyway, i told her it was good talkin to her and we should catch up sometime. I said it as a statement, not a question. Basically, the end of my last message to her was "we should catch up sometime." she read the message and never responded. i took it as a gut punch an regretted saying that in the first conversation. Ive asked friends about this. Im prepared to hear all the responses "thats her way of saying shes not interested, move on." and thats some of the responses my friends have given me, but other friends told me that its the internet and you cant take a cue like that so meaningfully. They basically told me to keep talking to her. Anyway, she didnt respond when i said "we should catch up sometime" but, she's liked my facebook statuses somewhat frequently and i would think-- if she was creeped out that i asked her to hang out, why would she still associate herself with me? Maybe she wasnt creeped out or maybe she wasnt totally disinterested? Should I start another conversation with her? What are your opinions? The internet can be pretty vague at times so sometimes its hard to pick up on cues online. I can say personally that if there was a girl who I thought might be interested in me and I had no interest in her at all, I wouldnt associate with her at all. I wouldn't Like or Comment any of her statuses. Again, what are your opinions? Thanks.
d0nnivain Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 FB is not the real world. Since she didn't respond to your casual comment about getting together some time I think your friends are right. Leave it be.
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