Should I give him two weeks?

[TINKERINGTHOUGHTS]

I have no way to contact him, his phone is disconnected. I do remember him saying that he got a new phone but didn't bother to ask for the number cause I thought he was keeping both ( he's done this before, work phone and personal phone ) now the # I know is disconnected and I don't know the other one.

 

He can easily pass by my place. I won't pass by his, I won't give in. He knows what he's doing and I know it. I feel like he had all of this planned out. We've been arguing a lot lately and he has threatened to cut off all contact. I know I should have asked for the number but I really didn't think his old one was going to get disconnected.

 

If I don't hear from him, if he doesn't pass by in two weeks or so, should I consider us broken up?

 

I know I sound prideful as hell but he'd put through hell the past 2 years we've been together. I decided to grow a spine and not give him what he wants as easily. I want to see if he's going to look for me or just simply let go.

 

So if he doesn't contact me in two weeks ( he's gone a week without contacting me before ) should I consider us done?

 

Oh, we also have a One year old who he considers his child whenever he feels like it. If we argue, she's not his ( ITS HIS BIOLOGICAL CHILD!) if we're OK, she's the light of his life.

 

What to do?

[bmh]

I'm not real sure why you would want to wait two weeks....start your healing process now. This relationship seems toxic. He's put you through hell for 2 years? Only claims his child sometimes? Walk away. As hard as it is.

[Arieswoman]

This guy is an irresponsible, insensitive POS - get on with your life and carry on being a great mum to your child. She deserves your love - he doesn't.

 

Good luck.

[sw2020]

Wow. Who does that to someone? Start healing, he'll be back for sure, but hopefully you'll be strong enough to know you deserve to be treated far better.