kunu Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I dated this chick for about 4 months and we were in a heavy situation. She had a lot of issues....bad dad problems and seemed on the slutty side (just need to be honest) but she locked on hard and we had a connection. I didn't necessarily like her personality and we didn't have many similarities but there was something. I originally had her on a leash and she came back twice. Everytime I would leave town she would text me how much she missed me yada yada. We were going at it 4x a week; 3+ a night for a good while and toward the end, I was in an uneasy job situation and she faded away. She kept telling me I was moving but invited me to her fam's thanksgiving. There, I began to realize how bad she treated me and broke it off. I however kept giving mixed signals and may have professed my feelings in order to push her away. Now, even though I initiated it I felt crushed because she "didn't care". It's like if I was in love with this girl but I absolutely hate her at the same time. Now I've gotten over most of it but after fitting puzzle pieces together realized she is trying to sabotage our good friend's relationship and f*ck my friend who is in a 5 year living situation with her girlfriend she also works with. I ran into her at a bar on my birthday after not talking for 3 weeks and vented and dissed her as hard as I could (bad move). Made her cry but she still is trying to act like she doesn't give a sh*t and is Ms. Unemotional. She then caused a fight between our friends again by hitting on him hard at a bar in front of everyone. I'm over her (I think) but the thing that is aching at me is that she's sabotaging our mutual friends' relationship. I'm planning on backing off completely (even these friends) but would appreciate advice on what to do. She's become a third wheel on their relationship and stole my phone on my birthday yesterday. Thanks.
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