Zoe Lilith Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 I received a sms from my ex saying; "I told you not to f*ck with my emotions" (he grabbed my face, looked me straight in the eyes and said those words) that was when we were together...I have no idea why he is mentioning it now. I've changed my number ages ago, although tempted, I never contacted him after my "psycho-attacks" months ago...I recently got an email from him, that he sent by accident, to which I haven't responded, since I couldn't care less...I just don't know what does he want from me? I realized that he is the nastiest person I've ever met, and I don't want to have any contact with him....I want to be left alone, but I don't want to send a message telling him to leave me alone! Was this message a threat or is he playing a game with me? How do I stop this sh*t?!
Why so consistent Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 im not sure and im pretty new to this forum , but as a man i wouldn't do that to my ex if i try to get back together or wanna be friend after long time . why do i find that text so offensive ?
Mariposa10 Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 This sounds really scary..... I'd save that text, you might have to contact the police if he says something like this again. This sounds like a threat, not a game. Stuff like this should be taken serious. Maybe I'm just too paranoid, but I don't like this at all. 3
Clay Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Well keep track of all he sends to you. If he continues to do this contact the cops. They will start the paperwork trail. If after them talking to him he persists its not going to go well for him. Stalking orders are taken very seriously these days. On another not just ignore it and hopefully he will just leave you alone. People that do those kinds of things are fools. Life is to short to fight the world. Clay 1
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 im not sure and im pretty new to this forum , but as a man i wouldn't do that to my ex if i try to get back together or wanna be friend after long time . why do i find that text so offensive ? I'm offended because there is no reason for him to conatct me, I don't know were he got my number from..he ignored and lied to me and broke up with me on the most horrible way..
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 Thank you Mariposa10 and Clay, I will ignore it. If he sends any similar messages like that, I will contact the police.
Why so consistent Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 I'm offended because there is no reason for him to conatct me, I don't know were he got my number from..he ignored and lied to me and broke up with me on the most horrible way.. indeed there's no reason for him to contact you and i agree with all the ppl on top said "save the message" so u can report to the police.
Mariposa10 Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 I don't mean to freak you out or anything, but was he violent in the relationship? or in past relationships? Did he ever talk about past relationships? His exes? You can learn a lot by the way people talk about their exes..
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 I don't mean to freak you out or anything, but was he violent in the relationship? or in past relationships? Did he ever talk about past relationships? His exes? You can learn a lot by the way people talk about their exes.. No, he was really nice, everything that a woman would want in a man..But he was a nasty liar and a cheat..I don't know where this is coming from, it's really strange to get a message like that in the middle of the night...I was just thinking that this message could be hunger for an "ego boost"..
Why so consistent Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 liar and cheat is the worst for a relationship :/ .....
Clay Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Sent you a PM. Just a Question about your split. Clay
reddragon588 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Seems strange... He is trying to get a rise out of you. Don't give him the satisfaction of achieving his goal and ignore him. Keep track of the text however, as there is a past history of abuse you need to have it on file 1
Trapito Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 (edited) I am sorry your ex had the nerve to sent you this. Not nice, controlling and very scary. Do you have a smartphone? You can get an app which 'blocks' the texts. It does not actually block them, but you don't get a notification. The texts will be stored in the app without you getting a heartattack every time you receive a text. Make sure to check the texts every once in a while, or have a friend check them for you. Just to make sure if you need to file a report or not. Edited December 20, 2013 by Trapito grammar
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 I am sorry your ex had the nerve to sent you this. Not nice, controlling and very scary. Do you have a smartphone? You can get an app which 'blocks' the texts. It does not actually block them, but you don't get a notification. The texts will be stored in the app without you getting a heartattack every time you receive a text. Make sure to check the texts every once in a while, or have a friend check them for you. Just to make sure if you need to file a report or not. I've already done that...turned off the notifications. I will change the number again, since I have a pre-paid number and only very few people have it anyway, I have no problem changing it a much as I need to
Trapito Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 That also solves the problem. Still be carefull though, does he know where you live?
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 That also solves the problem. Still be carefull though, does he know where you live? Yes, but he lives in Germany and I'm in Eastern Europe..I doubt that he will be showing up here.
Clay Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Well that would be quite the trip to just cause you problems. Your probably safe from him. Clay
Haydn Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 keep stong Z. We are with you. Yes, but he lives in Germany and I'm in Eastern Europe..I doubt that he will be showing up here. 1
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 Well that would be quite the trip to just cause you problems. Your probably safe from him. Clay I think so too. 1
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 keep stong Z. We are with you. Thank you Haydn, it's really good to know that there are honest people who tell you how it is and not what I want to hear.
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