lucy5 Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Hey! Ok, I feel really stupid. Here I am, 30 years old and I am still a sucker on receiving a sweet talk after sending one by message. I just need a friendly talk to make me come to my scenes. Thanks Why am I feeling like this? (I am warning you, it is quite silly) So I was with my girl friend over a drink and and I send my (two month in a relationship) boyfriend a message: Hey sweet, whats up, will you be hanging out with V (a friend, who traveled from another town) tonight? He: If V calls me we will go for a beer which doesn't exclude you, if you are up for it, or i'll be going with couple a friends play a game, I've been refusing them for to long and again you can come along. Me: if you will be playing with them I'll pass on that one, I think guys would like to see you without me for a change hehe, just enjoy it, but if V calls then I'll join you. I want yo any time in a day, you know it just checking are we going to see each other tonight. he told me he will inform me as soon as he knows I toss one more message: I am cheering for V to call you haha : owww "kiss you" now here is the stupid point where I expect some kisses back, just cause I am in such a sweet talk mood and I miss him at that moment o much He: I am starting to blush My silly mind is not satisfied with that answer, I m replying: Yeah, I would like to blush as well No answer.... after an hour he is calling me: Hey, V is not calling so I am going over to play a game, will you come? me: nah, go hang out with guys and enjoy it he: ok then...well I'll call you, don't know what hour will be when I finish me: no matter it's ok.... (now again the stupid part) you know you could've returned some sweet talk to me ( not in angry tone, just a teasing one) he: ow umm...come on now...ugh aghh I am so stupid over the phone me: ah never mind, ok hear ya later then he ok, call you, bye me: bye hang up...after two minutes, I sent him a message: you know "kisses back" would be just enough no reply.... I know I know I know....I am acting completely silly, but I can't help it and I am feeling so mellow and like he doesn't care. I know I would reply back to him if he had sent me such a message. It is like going for a kiss and not being answered by one. Guys...just say something cause I am feeling completely silly and sad. Thanks
damien201 Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Relax. Take a few deep breaths. You're going way overboard. Sorry that wasn't very friendly but if you keep acting like this you're going to drive this guy away.
Author lucy5 Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 Thanks and it was friendly. Friend will tell you the truth. I know I am going overboard, I don't want to feel like this yet here I am. Would like to know how to fight this moments. I admit, I am overly sensitive... I simply can't pull it out of my chest. I just needed that sweet caring word so much...and still do.
Clay Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Maybe the kissing part is over board but wouldn't you expect something back like a smiley face. Clay
MidwestUSA Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Cheer up, Lucy! You got a guy who admits to being "stupid over the phone"! He really said that? It's sweet, and funny. Don't overthink!
jba10582 Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Being mellow about it is the more positive of the emotions you seem to be experiencing...so keep the mellowness and being relaxed and calm...no worries.
Author lucy5 Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 Thanks guys! Pewww... So I had a good night sleep and now looking back I really was fussed over nothing. As I said, I cant help those stupid moments of overthinking, neediness. Trying to handle tham but sometimes I loose my compas. He has them also, but my response is different. Guess I just have to have in mind that nobody reacts the same and I know such things are not proof of love, just a simple sweet gestures towards person you care for or love. I was actually surprised how some people really don't care about these kind of stuff, or even find them repulsive. I will have to have that in mind. I simply had to vent yesterday. Well, this is the place for it.
Author lucy5 Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 Cheer up, Lucy! You got a guy who admits to being "stupid over the phone"! He really said that? It's sweet, and funny. Don't overthink! Yeah he did. Over the phone he is really a mess considering how affectionate he is when we are together, on our own or in public. I was just makeing a big deal out of nothing. Later when he called, he told me he doesn't have a need for telling me "love you, kiss you" and those kind of things in message cause that is how he feels towards me all the time and he wants me to know that. Guess my Venus in Leo is just way to needy and vain sometimes.
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