haha1985 Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Hey people! So i met this cute girl and we have been on one date like 2 weeks ago - went really well, get on well kissed etc etc. Date 2 is planned for this Saturday. Anyway - any conversations we have I always have to initiate. Occasionally she will send me a message and before I can reply she will send me a different message about what she is up to. She flirts a little, tells me she is looking forward to seeing me etc etc.... BUT in terms of initiating conatct, she never ever does and RARELY asks anything about me - my day, personal questions etc. Do I avoid calling/texting to see what she does? Do I chase for a little longer, say for around 4/5 dates then leave it to her to start to do some work? Does she like me lol?? Only been one date, I know but I dont want to be chasing people forever! Thanks
Philosoraptor Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Do you want to contact her? Stop overthinking what her reaction will be and instead focus on what you want to do. Just do what comes natural. If what comes natural to you scares her off then she wasn't the right person for you. At this point you're just stressing over nothing and playing games with yourself.
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