theonlyjuan Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Before my ex I got involved with this other girl. My ex was always paranoid that I still liked her and was jealous of her until the very end. This girl before my ex messed me about a lot, nothing ever came of it. I didn't talk to this girl for about 6 months while I was with me ex, I knew my ex would get mad if I spoke to her. I see this girl out and about at clubs and bars. I saw her out the other night and we spoke quite a bit. She told me that she thinks we should go on another date and that she still likes me. I have no interest in her now, I am glad we never got together. I just thought it was typical of life to throw this up. Point is, I got over her and moved on. I done my own thing and concentrated on myself, now she is back and wants me again. What is with people coming back to you after you have moved on and have no interest? Do they see a change in you or do they get jealous of how well you have moved on? I just find it a bit weird, it always seems to happen.
organizedchaos Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Before my ex I got involved with this other girl. My ex was always paranoid that I still liked her and was jealous of her until the very end. This girl before my ex messed me about a lot, nothing ever came of it. I didn't talk to this girl for about 6 months while I was with me ex, I knew my ex would get mad if I spoke to her. I see this girl out and about at clubs and bars. I saw her out the other night and we spoke quite a bit. She told me that she thinks we should go on another date and that she still likes me. I have no interest in her now, I am glad we never got together. I just thought it was typical of life to throw this up. Point is, I got over her and moved on. I done my own thing and concentrated on myself, now she is back and wants me again. What is with people coming back to you after you have moved on and have no interest? Do they see a change in you or do they get jealous of how well you have moved on? I just find it a bit weird, it always seems to happen. Yeah, and that's what everyone tells people here about getting over a break up. Once you move on, they seem to come back. Could be months or years later. Same thing just happened to me. My ex and I were together for almost 3 years. 2 months before I met my ex, I was dating a girl who ended it with me and I was kind of upset about it. 2 months later I got together with my ex. Fast forward to 2 months ago, 3 months after my ex and I split up, over 3 years after this first girl ended things with me, and she pops back up in my life, starts messaging me, and we're starting to casually date again. So as for my current ex, it's been a total of 5 months since bu now, but who knows what will happen down the line... 1
sw2020 Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 They initially got with you as they found you attractive. Get together, crap happens, you lose yourself a bit, break up, go back to being yourself and become attractive again.
hermitinator Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 . What is with people coming back to you after you have moved on and have no interest? Do they see a change in you or do they get jealous of how well you have moved on? I just find it a bit weird, it always seems to happen. You want what you couldn't have.
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