Real36 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 My ex told me that he is moving to another state in January. I am having conflicting emotions. I am glad because now I will finally be able to completely get over him but I have to admit there is some sadness too. I sincerely hope this move helps him to get some things straight in his life and grow up a little bit. I hope that his leaving the state (which means that he will no longer have to come to my office) helps me to take that final step in letting every part of our relationship go and I will stop having emotions relating to him at all. I guess the sadness comes from not having total closure. I want to move on. I think that not seeing him at all will help me get the closure I need.
Yasuandio Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I think that's gonna help you alot. I want to leave the state and get away - as far as possible. But I have 2 homes and still some legal problems hanging over my head that prevent me from selling the homes. And one home is a collateral on his business for another year. Of course he has done zero to correct that. Think of this as a good thing. If you have more freedom than I - perhaps u try another state too! Making the contact impossible is the secrecy sauce. As if they were six feet under. I'm convinced of that. Go girl. Yas
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