thehero101 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I broke up with my girlfriend in the summer. At the time there was personal problems in my life that was caused by my family. It had affected me deeply though it was only until a month or two ago before I was able to finally accept what had happened and start to get over them. The personal problems influenced me in breaking up with her and I have regretted it. At the time I didn't know how much of my decision to break up with her was influenced by this until I was finally able to confront what had happened and move on from it. My ex and I still talk and are good friends though I want to go back to what we were before. She knows this and only see's me as a friend. She has told me she is afraid of getting her heart broke again. I know that all I want is her and that I want a second chance to prove to her that we our meant to be. I do believe I can win her back but I just need advice on what to do. Any help would be welcome.
iworthmore Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 sorry for that bro, start showing her that you have changed and it must be real not fake!!. ur family issues r in the past and you are over them. your relationship shouldn't be affected by external problems like family. she's not responsible for that and she must not pay the price. i think you should keep taking care of her unless she asked you to stop contacting her then don't!. and give her space. she must realize that it was a stage in your life which now is over. if she see you happy and strong maybe she will reconsider her decision. good luck
Author thehero101 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 Yeah I understand that. At the time of the break up I didn't really know that it was because of that that I broke up with her. It put a lot of pressure on me and it made things seem horrible when they weren't. It was only sometime after when things returned to normal was I finally able to see the mistake that I made. She says a lot about being friends though part of me feels that there is something there inside of her that does what to get back together. She doesn't mind that I text her and she even said she was getting me a Christmas gift too and she did say she saw me as a close friend. I just feel that since she got her heart hurt she is afraid of it happening again and that the first thing I got to do to get back with her is to help her get over that.
Author thehero101 Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 So is there anymore advice people can give I would really be thankful if there is
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