SameOldFear Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Hi guys. I'm going on week 3 of NC. While I'm no where near healed, I'm feeling a lot better. I have my weak moments, but the more time that goes on without talking to him, the more I begin to see what a coward he really was. Unfortunately, we have a similar circle of friends. My close friends don't like him or the girl he left me for, but they can't avoid being around him, because they go to school with him and our other friends invite him places too. Anyway, I went out with some of my friends last night. I really miss that circle and one guy even hit on me and asked for my number. It made me realize how much I don't like being alone all the time. But most of the time, him and the girl he left me for are hanging out with them. Do you think I should start hanging out with them again and just ignore my ex? Or will it be too painful to even try? Especially since I don't have someone new, I don't want to look weak or lonely.
d0nnivain Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 They are your friends too. Hang out with them; so far it seems to be a positive. If he shows up, you don't have to interact with him. If it's too painful, just leave.
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