juststarry6443 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I didn't find out until recently that I was just this girl on the side. I seriously thought we were exclusive. Well another failed relationship for me. Long story short, he deceived me I'm sure he'll do the same to her. I don't think he should be getting all this glory from her as if he's some loving guy. She has heard of me BTW. She already hates my guts. Anyway I feel like I should tell her wht he had been up to. or should I just keep hush hush?
Clay Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 If you decided to tell bring evidence. Have as much as you can. They can dispute words its a lot harder to lie about photos and letters. Above all protect yourself. Do not put yourself in a bad spot so if you want to talk to her in person make sure its some place public. Clay
violet1 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I'm sorry you unknowingly became the OW. Unless you have really good evidence, I would not tell. OW's who try to expose without evidence get the shaft big time. They get accused of being crazy and a stalker. It causes so much unnecessary drama. Move on and block both of them out of your life completely. If the gf already "hates your guts", chances are she won't believe you anyway.
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