OrangeSnack Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 (edited) I want to make this as short as possible. But basically I met someone on the Internet. We went to lunch and from that moment I had good vibes about her. And typically I would part ways with my date before deciding if I wanted to see them again. But for some odd reason I was struck by her beauty and I knew from the instant that we would connect. We had a long lunch conversation and afterwards, I told her that I would like to take her out on a date and she agreed. So we were able to set a date a week later. Prior to our date, we chatted a lot via text. Anyhow, I picked her up and we drove to one of her favorite places in LA (surprised her. Had to do some text digging and it was very spontaneous). We conversed the entire time in the car and though their was traffic it felt like we were zoned in on each other. Afterwards I surprised her again and took her to her very first hockey game (she seemed very excited and intrigued). I know people say that it's not a good idea to take your dates to sporting events but I wanted to risk it and besides I kinda felt she was different. We literally talked the whole time and maybe from time to time we spoke about hockey haha (I was totally fine with it, given that I am a huge hockey fan and that her presence was more important than a hockey game). We walked back to my car and we sat for a few minutes and she asked me what's wrong. I told her if she would like to grab a drink. She said she doesn't typically drink but would love to accompany me. I told her I had a friend that was going back to her country and that her bf invited me to come over. I told her that I just wanted to say good bye and she said oh let's go. I was surprised she was even down for it and in my mind I definitely felt like this person was special... So anyhow we went I had a drink and left 20 minutes later. We drove back and she and I just kept talking and talking. We talked everything from career, relationships, family, friends, etc. I cant think of a single thing that I didn't like about her. I don't think there was any flirting but she definitely did a few touches here and there, hair brushing, and laughed at my corny jokes (all good signs). Overall we had a great night and she had expressed she had a good time too. (She did mention to me that she's an honest and straight forward person). I told her that she is very special and that of all the people I've met she had something that was so different from others. I think she blushed but it was so dark I couldn't tell. I told her I wanted to see her again and she agreed. No specific date was set but I did ask what she was doing this weekend. She said she has a family event on the same day that I'm hosting a party at my house. Her family just so happens to live close to where I live (15 minutes). I told her to come by and she said she will let me know... But anyhow the conversation continued and it was really getting late. We finally said our good byes and hugged (damnit). My question is should I have gone for the kiss? Now I'm sitting here feeling a bit insecure of myself because all these crazy thoughts are coming through my head. (WTF) I typically like to build up to the moment of the kiss and I also want to make it seem natural. I've asked girls for kisses before but those NEVER work (at least for me). Furthermore, even though she had agreed to see me again, has anyone ever had a gal change their mind? I know I'm going a little head over heels about this gal and my insecurities are starting to show... I don't know if she was expecting a kiss from my end but I have a lot of regrets flowing through my body at the moment and two major ones are: 1). I should have held her hand or at least tried and 2). I should have walked her back to her door instead of just parked outside. We haven't scheduled anything yet but she has agreed to see me again. I'm thinking of flirting more on the next date. I really think the environment made it difficult for us to flirt. So that's why I'm kind of feeling, well did she really see me as a friend or a partner? I don't know I am a bit confused at the moment. I don't want to get friendzoned by this person so I'm trying to figure out what I need to do to take it to the next level or in other words, seal the deal. Edited December 18, 2013 by OrangeSnack
d0nnivain Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Stop equating romance to death & murder. If a woman is staring deeply into your eyes & especially if she licks her lips, that's usually a good sign that she is expecting a kiss. yes you should have walked her to her door, or at least offered.
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