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Rejected by guy 'friend' now feel awful

Heatemyheart89

By Heatemyheart89
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Heatemyheart89 Established Member

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I met a guy at a party through friends. We saw each other for 2 months it fizzled out. Then we didn't speak for a while. I saw him again and we became good friends. Hanging out a lot (with another guy who is gay). He got me a nice birthday present, was nice to me etc.

 

However one of my other 'friends' who is gay noticed I seemed uncomfortable when the guy spoke about other girls I was. So I figured I have some romantic feelings for him. The gay friend tells the guy about my feelings blatantly. The guy then tells me he has no romantic feelings for me/ isn't attracted to me.

 

Then I find out the gay friend had done sexual things with the guy and liked him.

So overall I feel like such a fool! I feel the gay guy wanted to get me out the way and the other guy used me just for something to do! Urgh I feel terrible now. I find the situation so bizarre!I have low self esteem as it is. I feel terrible the guy seems to find EVERYONE attractive but me ! :S

HeartbrokenNewbie Established Member

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Blimey what a situation! x think its time for u to walk away.... I think u have worked this one out for yourself... make a quick exit xx

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While the gay friend was wrong for interfering, the guy in Q probably only saw you as a friend. He fooled around with the gay guy which tells me that he was looking for things you as a woman could not give him. Perhaps he wanted you to be the Grace to his Will but I don't see the potential for a romantic relationship. Get your gay-dar checked & next time pick a straight man; that alone will up your odds for success.

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This is the type of silly story you will laugh at years down the line.

 

 

No, I don't mean to undermine your feelings. It stinks being rejected under any circumstance. But don't let one person not finding you attractive make you think you're unattractive! It all comes down to statistics... there are bound to be those that are good for you, those that are bad for you, those that are attracted and those that aren't!

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