johndo1984 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I meet this girl online, we went on few date. We have great time. Then one day she suddently told me she not ready to date again. It kind of make me wonder, if she using that excuse not to see me. She told me she told the other two person she dated as well. But then she stilll has the account online active and sometime she log on to her account. We haven't spoke for a week, is she worth my time? What should I do? What you think her plan is?
MalachiX Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I meet this girl online, we went on few date. We have great time. Then one day she suddently told me she not ready to date again. It kind of make me wonder, if she using that excuse not to see me. She told me she told the other two person she dated as well. But then she stilll has the account online active and sometime she log on to her account. We haven't spoke for a week, is she worth my time? What should I do? What you think her plan is? Of course she's not worth your time. She told you that she's not going to date you. As for the reasoning, it's usually one of two things. a.) She isn't that interested and is using this as a way to let you down. b.) She's someone who likes the attention from men which comes from OLD but doesn't actually want to get out there and try dating. She'll message with a bunch of guys then disappear when they suggest an actual date. Either way, there's no point in pursuing her further.
Author johndo1984 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 Of course she's not worth your time. She told you that she's not going to date you. As for the reasoning, it's usually one of two things. a.) She isn't that interested and is using this as a way to let you down. b.) She's someone who likes the attention from men which comes from OLD but doesn't actually want to get out there and try dating. She'll message with a bunch of guys then disappear when they suggest an actual date. Either way, there's no point in pursuing her further. Thanks for the reply, she just told me she not ready to date anyone. Well I told me she has a stubborn heart, that why she doesnt let anyone in her life. But am decide to move on, if she want to talk to me, she can reach me. I dont see she put much effort.
charlietheginger Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 This is why dating for women is so easy... show up get a few meals movie and then walk away... onto the next... I know a women who has been on over 60 online dates in the last 3 yrs. had sex with 2 she is 28 pretty and never paid for anything on any of the dates..... dating as a women is FUN FUN FUN for a guy its $50 a dinner ... this is why I only ask out a women I see potential with music,hobbies,workingout whatever... if I don't get the vibe anything will come of it I don't bother is rather save my money... now if she is giving of signals playing with hair , smiling eye contact ill give it a shot. I've gotten numbers and never called simply because I didn't really feel she was into me and I'm not gonna waste $50 to find out ill just date ones that seem into me
d0nnivain Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 She's still OL because she likes the attention. I don't know whether she is not ready to date period or if that's just something she said to let you down gently. Either way, stop investing time in her.
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