notaneatfreak Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I fell in love with a Latino over six years ago. We broke up because of distance. Clearly. I get phone calls and messages from him from Nicaragua claiming his undying love for me is still there. I don't know what to do about this. He is pushing 40. I am pushing 30. HE STILL calls me and claims to profess his undying love for me. We spoke on the phone for an entire YEAR after we saw each other. My friend hates him. My parents are confused because they don't know him. He called me in August and wanted me to come down. Then he called me again just now in December and wants me to come down. His father, whom I accidentally spoke to on the phone, is as confused as I am. What do I do?
letsplaygofish2 Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 I would recommend that you move on. You're 30 years old, you're not going to get any younger and you might end up taking a gamble on someone who may never come to you, let alone have a happily ever after with you! As someone who is 39 and recently single, I often think about the choices I've made as far as partners. Some of these people said they wanted to marry me, but they didn't for whatever reason. I feel like I lost a good 10 years of my life waiting for my ex's to 'man up', but it never did. So take it from someone who's waited and waited... don't wait! 1
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