Missyhissy Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Hi I recently posted about my short term relationship ending. All would probably agree its the best thing. But I feel so sad. I miss him even though I shouldn't. I feel like this is his ultimate win trying to mess with my mind. Every time i needed him he was gone only to be all over me the next minute. My kids have been sick and I'm tired out. I was meant to go see him but my daughter was sick. So he decided to go away for a week. Outa the blue. He didn't contact me and when I called him he was quiet. I told him I had enough like I said in the other post. I just feel so awful. I can't believe the person I had so much fun with after sorting out our initial issues, has changed over night. It's like he was punishing me because I didn't get to see him. What a knob head. I need to get over this fast. I feel like an idiot. Thanks for reading. Missy
vergeofdawn Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Please don't feel that way. If he truly like you or even love you, this is only a small issue and will ignore it. Just because you wasn't able to see him due to your sick daughter he will ignore you and walk away, well that's the most unreasonable thing for him to do. Save yourself from further pain, for me he's not worth your time and especially your love. 1
manders_01 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Don't feel like an idiot. We've all fallen for people that aren't the best for us. And it's not uncommon to pine for them regardless of if we truly liked them. Whether serious or casual dating, the heart still needs time to heal itself. 1
Author Missyhissy Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 Thanks for your replies. I don't know why I'm so miserable. Maybe cuz it's Christmas. I don't know. I can't get him outa my head. Damn I wish I could. Everything reminds me of him. Cheers Missy
Lovingsomeone2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, I know the feeling. I get attached really fast & despite the way things seem to end I always am left miserable & feeling like I'm missing him terribly. It's awful to feel so attached to someone so quickly, I don't get why I am like that, it's not a quality I relish about myself. I hope your pain subsides quickly. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Sweetie, to put it bluntly that guy is an idiot. Plenty more out there 1
Author Missyhissy Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 Lovingsomeone yeah you sound just like me. It's awful. Maybe we both have abandonment issues or something. Eternal sunshine. Yeah thinking about it more and more he is an idiot. Self centred a hole. I think I should be writing down all the bad stuff he did and said. Thanks for your being blunt. I need to hear it Cheers Missy
mortensorchid Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I'm trying to get over someone myself, similar situation (6 weeks). The only way you can get over someone is to get as busy as possible and do other things to distract you. It's hard, of course, but that's all you can do. Eventually you'll forget about him. He doesn't deserve you.
Author Missyhissy Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 That's what I've been doing. Keeping busy and doing stuff I missed out in doing when I was with him. That helps. Hope you feel better soon.
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