manutd07 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 So there is this girl I've been hanging out with for a few weeks but we haven't actually had a ton of time alone. I'm 24 and she is 23, with an 18 month old son. First time we hung out we went to a party, we were both drinking but since the roads were icy, I decided to remain coherent to make sure we both made it home safe. She was drinking a lot and ended up making the first move on me as we made out for awhile. She decided we were leaving the party early and we proceeded to drive home and ended up getting intimate at her house, also her making the move. The second time she asked me to come over to her house after work while her parents were out of town. Once again we proceeded to get intimate and we cuddled for two hours afterwards. Last night we went out after her work shift to dinner and a movie. Dinner went great, but because I over think everything, I wasn't sure if we were together or if it was purely a physical thing, so I didn't even reach in for the cuddle until about 20 minutes left in the movie. Once the movie was over we were slowly walking to her car and for some reason I got nervous and stood way too far from her to even give a hug goodbye. When we finished talking and there was a small break in conversation, she looked at me weird and said ok... bye... and drove off. I felt like a huge idiot because I know I care for this girl, still not sure if she cares for me, but I know that not making the move could have ruined anything we had. So, stupidly I texted her apologizing for being awkward and she responded with "I'm getting used to it". Did I ruin it?
justwhoiam Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 I texted her apologizing for being awkward and she responded with "I'm getting used to it". Did I ruin it? Not irreparably. Tell her you like her and would like her to be your girlfriend. And that you being awkward was just the result of being nervous because you didn't know if you should tell her, how and when.
d0nnivain Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 She's probably wondering if you think she's easy but you can fix it by calling her & asking for another date. Kiss her hello when you see her. perhaps bring her a little something: a flower, chocolate, some token.
Author manutd07 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 We are going out again to a location of her choosing. How can I make sure I don't make the same mistake?
d0nnivain Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Go in with confidence. Pep yourself up before the date. Remember she made the 1st move & she agreed to go out with you again. Those are all positives
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