Wings Of Love Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Long story short, blocked my ex on Facebook and went NC back in October after he left in July. But I kept three of his sisters and his brother on my friends list as they are all closely tied with my older sister and I often see them at family parties. Yesterday afternoon I finally got around to deleting all the photos I still had of my ex from my account. This was about helping myself to move on, not to get a reaction. Within minutes of doing so, his brother posted several photos of himself and my ex out at a concert and I stumbled across them. The pain was immediate and intense. I made a split second decision and removed all of his siblings from my list. I realise now that healing is the most important thing, and that they should understand why I've had to do this. I woke up today feeling as though a huge weight had lifted. For the first time in 5 months I was able to login without being scared of what I might find. I feel great and I'm finally getting into the Christmas spirit instead of missing him. Should've done this a long time ago, it's a wonderful feeling. 3
falxmanolo Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Excellent! Really good for you! I went through a similar situation where my ex's sister would still keep liking and commenting on my facebook like her brother totally didn't dump my ass on facebook -.- I couldn't get myself to delete her because she is so sweet! she's such a darling! but one fine day (two days ago lol) I decided I had had enough and if my ex could dump me on facebook after a year and a half then obviously i meant nothing to him or his family. For my happiness and to not be constantly reminded of him, I deleted his sister from facebook and I feel so wonderful! Get in the christmas spirit and stay happy now!
Reels Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 You might be feeling free for now, but i wonder how you will feel later on, it can be worse than before.
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