Danny Dee Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Hi Everyone Basically I've been having relationship problems on & off for just over a month. We have been together a little over 5 years. In the last few months I had noticed her being distant & cold towards me which lead to us having a fight on our 5 year anniversary which lead to me ending it. We split up for a few days but decided we couldn't do it. We have had a very loving 5 years with no real major arguments etc. We where defo best friends. However since we have got back together I'm now finding it awkward. Sometimes I struggle to find things to talk about other times we can't shut each other up. Recently I have noticed her acting a bit cold again & was starting to think things wherent going to work out but then she starts being all nice to me & I even know she went through my phone & fount messages from a girl I work with (that where totally innocent by the way). She told me she was really worried that I was going to lose me to someone else, & started telling me that she knows she will never find anyone that will treat her the way I do or love her as much etc. This made me think she still cared but then again maybe she's afraid of being single again. I have to be honest I do love this girl more than anything but I'm not sure she is treating me the way I deserve to be & I am really scared of being single again & I'm not sure weather this is part of the reason keeping us together. Sorry for the essay advice greatly appreciated this is my first ever proper relationship I am 26 & she is 25. Thanks in advance
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