His on line behavior

[ExpatInItaly]

Well, I've tried, he flaked

 

Now, he's been online in another dating site, he's on line now, but he told me he couldn't see me today?? I guess I'd have to let this one go...am I right?

 

should I said to him I'm sorry I didn't want to pressure him with meeting and that I did not picked the hints? Just feel very low right now

 

No. Grow a backbone, girl! Suggest a place and a time. If he still doesn't respond or gives you a wishy-washy answer, then assume he's not interested. Don't play silly games with him.

[forgetmenot75]

No. Grow a backbone, girl! Suggest a place and a time. If he still doesn't respond or gives you a wishy-washy answer, then assume he's not interested. Don't play silly games with him.

 

I already did! I proposed today, he flaked, then I proposed tomorrow morning! He said he was going to let me know, but now I'm seeing him online???

 

What am I supposed to do now?? Text him tomorrow and insist on a date?? Or just silence?? Or what???

[ExpatInItaly]

I already did! I proposed today, he flaked, then I proposed tomorrow morning! He said he was going to let me know, but now I'm seeing him online???

 

What am I supposed to do now?? Text him tomorrow and insist on a date?? Or just silence?? Or what???

 

Ah, ok. My mistake - I missed where you'd said you already suggested a time.

 

Given that, I don't think he's very interested. Don't text him again. He's obviously exploring his options and not overly eager to meet up with you. He sounds rather immature anyway, considering that he appears to be logging on and off when you do without speaking to you. Stop looking for him online; it will drive you mental. Is it possible to block him? I don't know how those sites work.

[FitChick]

Don't do anything. It's his move. Don't sit around waiting for him. Date other guys since he clearly wants to date other women.