Skotty Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Me and my ex met 3 months ago, and we hit it off really well. We started dating, and everything was going great! She's currently in college, and she had some family issues come about. Her drug addict father kicked her out, and she had no where to live. She decided she was going to stay at her mothers during the winter break. Her Mother lives about 2 and half hours from where I live, and she would be staying there for about 6 weeks. She texted me with concerns about doing a long distance relationship. We both have had bad experiences with them, and wasn't sure what to do. When It seemed like she wanted to breakup, I panicked and told her i loved her. I meant it, but it was not the right time for it. Especially telling her that over text for the first time. i was moving things too fast, and it blew up in my face. She told me she couldn't do this right now, and we broke up. Well a week went by, and we had zero contact. I did wish her a Happy Thanksgiving and she replied with a "Awww thanks you too!" but that was it. Well another week went by with no contact, and out of the blue she facebook messaged me "How're you?". We talked some, and she seemed friendly. Then later that week I changed my profile picture on facebook, and she texted me within a few minutes saying "You're so cute!". We started talking again, and she then said "This is why you're so awesome". Then that weekend she was drinking with some friends, and she started talking to me again. We talked all night like we used too. Basically I'm just confused by her mixed signals. I've never had a ex girlfriend stay in contact with me right after a break up. We're still friends on facebook/twitter. She texts me, and is friendly. Called me cute and awesome. But there's also periods of time where there's no contact at all. I'm just trying to figure out what she wants or is thinking. I don't want to bring it up to her because I don't want to make things awkward again. I do still love her, and want her back. Sorry for the long rant/paragraph. What do you guys make of this?
Philosoraptor Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Well either she's trying to get your attention in a good way, or in a bad way (emotional support). Look, you're doing nothing but wasting YOUR time by pussyfooting around everything. You'll do yourself a service by ending this game by calling it out and letting her know where you stand. If she feels the same way then great, you have a shot to make it work. If she doesn't you at least end this suffering you've been doing for weeks now trying to get a read on her.
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