kat1012 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 I met this guy last month at a friend's gathering. In the end, we exchanged Facebook. We messaged each other on FB for a week, but not like having long conversations. Then it stopped. Until recently, he got back from his holiday, we sorta got in touch again. Started with him commenting on a picture on my Facebook, saying I look grogeous. I just replied "thanks, how are you doing?" Then we caught up with each others' life a bit. he contacted me again, and I could feel like he's flirting with me. (like when I asked him what he's been up to recently, he said "nth special, waiting for you haha" , adding pretty in front of my name.) He asked me whether I have a boyfriend and then asked why not, I just said I dun have one. he's like "I see :)" But he never asked me out. It just feels weird and not sure what it means. And what should I do?
Philosoraptor Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Sounds like he's seeing where you stand. Thing is I'd worry that he didn't ask you out right then. He could be shy or he could be just keeping you around as an option if he can't get someone else. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 It might not mean anything. He could just be a flirty boy. You can't take anything that happens on FB seriously. Have you made it abundantly clear that if he asked you out, you'd say yes? Try that & see whether he takes the bait. you may even be able to fish around for a New Year's eve invite.
DarkNoel Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 I agree with previous posters. It definitely sounds like he's interested. I think you should give signs that you like him too. Make it clear that you would love going out with him. If he doesn't take the hint, maybe you should suggest that you guys do something sometime. Haha, hopefully he gets the message. If he doesn't, then well, maybe he was just playing around and leading you on. Also, in this day and age, there's absolutely no problem with a girl asking a guy out either. So, you have many options to consider.
Keenly Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Why not the obvious answer of ASK HIM OUT IF YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM. don't play games and sit back and wait for what you want while doing absolutely nothing about it.
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