fortyninethousand322 Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I am not someone who should be dating a virgin...
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Hmm...never heard of that before. Interesting... Personal experience. One of the biggest cheaters I ever dated was a very religious virgin when we started dating. Also I married a woman that had slept with damn near 100 guys by the time we were 20. The sex was good until we got married, at which point It ended. We maybe had sex 10 times in 3 years of marriage. My point is that people don't show you who they are up front.... And even if they do, when you are young, it's hard to understand what you are seeing.
ThatMan Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Yeah... I'm with Frank on this one... The fact that some potential date is a virgin would not trouble me. I might still be interested in that fun and exciting date... Wait- What? Sexually active without penetration? What exactly does that even mean? Are you religious? Some weird quasi-asexual? I would be driven far away from this person after being creeped out. I couldn't care at all about sex when first dating and getting to know someone. But this bizarre opinion just doesn't work at all for me. It is an asinine view of virginity. I would like to better understand the motivations behind living this way. 1
Iguanna Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Probably not. I suppose if I was in love with her and she seemed to be "the one" then I'd hold out but that's a tall order (as i've never met "the one"). If your curious why, it's because it sounds like she's a slave to some tradition that doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me. If we can do "everything else" then I'd really need a logical explanation as to why we can't have sex? Honestly, there's nothing sillier than all the women I've known who actually are willing to do anal but won't have plain old sex because they want to be "pure." If she can do everything else but not intercourse than it sounds like she's trying to find a loophole in a religion that she really doesn't believe in but is following out of societal pressure. That's hard for me to respect. Cultural stigmas about premarital sex our outdated and they wont' go away until people start questioning them. You don't have to jump into bed with everyone you meet but you also don't have to stop yourself from sexual exploration just because your parents are out of touch. I can't express how much I agree. You just said what I wanted to say and in even better english Thank you 1
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