bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 My ex boyfriend sends me a random picture of himself..not dirty..just a random picture...I didnt respond assuming he had the wrong number until he text me asking me of I got it. We haven't spoken in a while I'm just really confused why he did it...I asked..his answer was "idk" any ideas??
somedude81 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 My ex boyfriend sends me a random picture of himself..not dirty..just a random picture...I didnt respond assuming he had the wrong number until he text me asking me of I got it. We haven't spoken in a while I'm just really confused why he did it...I asked..his answer was "idk" any ideas?? Little more info, like who ended it?
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 It was kind of mutual...we were only dating a few months and there just really wasnt any chemistry..no passion..no nothing really..same dull conversations everyday until I finally brought up I wasn't happy when he responded he wasn't either and that was the end of it lol
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Hehehe, he can't think of a reason? Too funny! Just ignore it. Sounds like he's just looking for a reaction. Best to give him none. Lol I know right! It was so weird.....
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 What do you want the reason to be? Good question...no idea. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Good question...no idea. Then I wouldn't think about it. It's nothing and should be treated as nothing. Treat everything as nothing until something substantial comes from it. 3
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 I think if an ex is going to contact you, they better have thought a reason out and articulate it in the first instance. Random stuff like this purely to elicit a reaction. Like a toddler throwing a tantrum. Don't reply to anything else. You are probably right lol 1
barky2 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 He wanted you to drool and be a quicky. You didn't respond and bruised his ego, that's why he asked if you got it. Too easy to dissect that one. Barky 2
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 He wanted you to drool and be a quicky. You didn't respond and bruised his ego, that's why he asked if you got it. Too easy to dissect that one. Barky Lol what you mean quicky??
Simon Phoenix Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Lol what you mean quicky?? Um, he wanted you to come over and f*ck him, then leave just as quickly. 3
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Lol oh no...we never had sex when we were together...he knows better..lol
Simon Phoenix Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Lol oh no...we never had sex when we were together...he knows better..lol So what? Doesn't mean he doesn't want to try to get it now. 2
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Lol he can't be that stupid...he never acted that stupid..but I'll take your word for it lol
Simon Phoenix Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Lol he can't be that stupid...he never acted that stupid..but I'll take your word for it lol Why would that be stupid exactly? It's not like there's much downside for him. He's either getting sex or he's in the exact same place that he's in right now. 2
barky2 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 You asked for advice, this is real world advice Barky 1
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Why would that be stupid exactly? It's not like there's much downside for him. He's either getting sex or he's in the exact same place that he's in right now. As in why would he be stupid enough to think he could get it while we are broken up if I wouldn't give it to him while we were together...meaning he would be stupid to think that a random picture would get him a quicky if the dates and dinners did not lol my personal opinion would be that he is indeed STUPID for thinking that lol that's all I'm saying...
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 You asked for advice, this is real world advice Barky Yes thank you...I'm not saying you or anyone else's advice is dumb..def not..lol I'm saying my ex is stupid for thinking a random picture of his face would get him sex lol
Simon Phoenix Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 As in why would he be stupid enough to think he could get it while we are broken up if I wouldn't give it to him while we were together...meaning he would be stupid to think that a random picture would get him a quicky if the dates and dinners did not lol my personal opinion would be that he is indeed STUPID for thinking that lol that's all I'm saying... I still don't get why that's stupid. He's not harming himself or losing a single thing by doing that, is he? Then why is it dumb? Do you really think he's putting any emotion toward this at all?
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 I still don't get why that's stupid. He's not harming himself or losing a single thing by doing that, is he? Then why is it dumb? Do you really think he's putting any emotion toward this at all? Lol just a difference of opinion that's all....there are a lot of things I find stupid that others don't...I personally think he is stupid...you don't have to lol
MoveAlong Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Selfies are a terrible thing...sadly, my generation has been plagued by this evil.
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Selfies are a terrible thing...sadly, my generation has been plagued by this evil. Awful isnt it???? Lol
rec88 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 I'd say the fact that he takes selfies is all the reason you need to not talk to him. 1
Author bmh Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 I'd say the fact that he takes selfies is all the reason you need to not talk to him. Haha so very true!! It was very awkward....
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