fabulousgal Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 So my birthday is this week and for some reason I've wondered for weeks now will I hear from my ex. I don't think I want to, but yet I do. We've been complete NC since the breakup, three or four months ago. I initated, but only because he was not treating me right. The best thing would be he does not contact me and I feel bad about it for a day and then continue moving on.
moving2fast Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Happy early Birthday to you fabulousgal! I can see why you'd want the contact and why you don't. I hope that regardless of him contacting you you have a swell bday and enjoy yourself. Sorry that your ex wasn't treating you right, glad you knew you deserve better and wish you the best. 1
iouaname Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 The best thing would be he does not contact me and I feel bad about it for a day and then continue moving on. No - the best thing would be that he doesn't contact you and you enjoy your day, because it only comes once a year! Make plans ahead of time for how you're going to spend your birthday, and then have a fantastic day. Happy Birthday! 2
TheMoonBug Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 We have the same birthday! So, happy birthday! I thought the same thing you did, wondering if my ex would contact me again. He didn't, and that is okay. It is just more evidence that we don't belong together. I did, however, make a list last night that I'll meet someone new this year. We will see what happens! Oh, FYI - I have suffered depression and severe anxiety after the break up, and if I can get better you will too!
TylerDurdenn Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Your ex will not contact you, they have moved on.
acidios Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 i had Birthday in 14th and ex dint called not even a msg... it pains me cos we where together 6 years and i had quite the rage and sorrow but when im thinking about it clearly its for the best.it shows me lots of stuff,that she have moved on,she really dont care for me enymore even as a person,and that i dont have to expect enything from a person that dont respect me,for me right now she is a bad memory a person that hurt me. i will not say lies that im recovered and i dont think abou her but my mind its in a better state and thats a good start
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Happy birthday honey x its my ex's birthday tomorrow and I will not be contacting him (I do want too more than anything but I wont) x enjoy your special day x
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