EuTuBrute Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 I am currently 7 months post BU with my ex gf of 2.5 years... I am feeling super in the dumps today. I know people on this forum say go NC and move on. I just find it really hard to move on. Little back story... This girlfriend was my first love, and boy was i in love. It was greatest the best time of my life. But near the end of the relationship she became distant and cold, and started to treat me badly. My friends say i deserve better, and i know i do (I treated her really well), but its really hard for me to find a replacement... Even thought what she did to me is unforgivable and painful, i feel like my heart still longs for her. The worst part maybe why I feel like this is recently she texted me and wanted to see if i wanted to get coffee sometime soon... i was reluctant, but i agreed to (I really wanted to hear what she had to say). But it turns out she just blew me off saying she was upset that i "liked" someones status on facebook and i shouldn't have liked the status and should have defended her. Sorry for the rant, just feel lost today, I love her when i shouldn't, and I feel like everyday is a struggle.
kellkell Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Firstly,you shouldn't see moving on as 'finding a replacement' This doesnt sound healthy,if anything it sounds immature that shes upset about facebook and used that as an excuse. Move on,trust me,you'll find better If she cba to treat you right then shes not worth it.
Author EuTuBrute Posted December 16, 2013 Author Posted December 16, 2013 Sorry i shouldn't have used "finding a replacement"... I'm one of the few guys who is actually looking for love, not a stand of hookups. I know what its like to be in love and its a great feeling.
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