frenchgirl Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 There's this guy I've known through work a few years ago. He's about ten years older than me and overall a nice looking guy. We connected on Facebook and since then have been messaging back and forth a few times but nothing major. Last night he saw a picture of mine and sent a message to tell me that he thought I looked good! He jokingly said that I had grown up quite a bit since he last saw me. I quickly replied to thank him and to inquire about what else is going on in his life. Since then, nothing! Absolute silence! Do you think I answered too quickly? Maybe I seemed to happy with his compliment? I really don't understand why he hasn't gotten back to me in two days.
MalachiX Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Don't worry about the games people play. There's nothing wrong with responding to a compliment quickly or seeming happy to see someone. If he's trying to do the carrot on a stick thing that so many do in dating then don't bother with him. People play games because they either want to manipulate the other person or they've grown so cynical in dating that they think it's the only way. Either option isn't someone I want to date.
todreaminblue Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 There's this guy I've known through work a few years ago. He's about ten years older than me and overall a nice looking guy. We connected on Facebook and since then have been messaging back and forth a few times but nothing major. Last night he saw a picture of mine and sent a message to tell me that he thought I looked good! He jokingly said that I had grown up quite a bit since he last saw me. I quickly replied to thank him and to inquire about what else is going on in his life. Since then, nothing! Absolute silence! Do you think I answered too quickly? Maybe I seemed to happy with his compliment? I really don't understand why he hasn't gotten back to me in two days. if a guy times you on how quick you answer he is the with too much time on his hands..i answer quickly so i dont forget......most of my friends realize this......if i leave a text ....my life gets pretty hectic soemtimes and i forget.....guys who time chicks.....next...deb
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