my crooked love story

[kohsa_23]

Hi all

My girlfriend and I broke up about a month and half, and got married to some guy few days back. I was depressed and joined this site looking for help moving on. During this process I started contacting many of old friends, with one being a girl whom I have known for around 4 years but we have never met in person, initially we used to chat a lot for hours and hours, calling each other then we got busy with our lives, and I found out she was already in a relationship so I started keeping distance but kept invoice on and off through out.

So few days back I added her on what's app and we started chatting again like before, while chatting she asked me to call her and we spoke for good 40 minutes I told her about my break up and she told me that she too broke up with her boyfriend of 8 years, who left her for somebody else.

The problem is we live in different countries, have never met each other but am willing to go to her country and give this is go. I always liked her but she was already in a relationship, I asked her about her future plans, she replied "why", then I replied "if I want to marry you then I have to know your future plans" and she replied "ahem, saying her next plan". During some of our conversations in the past she has asked me to marry her jokingly, does all this mean anything.

 

It would be very kind of you to advice me on this. Thank you.

[soccerrprp]

omg, kohsa. who are having serious future-talk with someone you've never met. this isn't healthy and it certainly doesn't mean much other than the two of you are way ahead of yourselves.

 

you're already talking about marriage! what?! slow down and figure out how you two are even going to maintain a relationship long-distance.

 

SLOW DOWN.

[Philosoraptor]

Sounds like you both would be rebounding. You shouldn't pick your entire life up when you can rebound close to home and not give up the rest of your life to go somewhere without a plan.