MoveAlong Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 3 year relationship ended 7 weeks ago. I feel like a sine curve that is currently back on the decline. I can't help wondering whether she will reach out again. At what point does this hope finally go away...? Is there really a big difference between the dumper and the dumpee? This is my first serious relationship, and I just wonder what's going on the other side. Since we didn't end on bad terms, and LDR got the best of us, I'm just curious how being the dumper would feel.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 At the point u realise u wouldn't have them back (it will happen) xx
reddragon588 Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Hate to break it to you, but the hope is already gone, sorry. All you're doing now is hanging onto the past. You're still early in the process, it gets better. 1
Fangorn Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Damn man, I don't think there's an answer to this. I wake up every day and tell myself that A) She gave up on the best boyfriend she'll ever find, B) She's not going to call and C) Even if she did I'm not going to answer. Deep down I know I hope she'll reach out but I'm trying to condition my mind to accept that she won't. Quite simply it doesn't matter anyway. It's tough man but stay strong, focus on yourself and things can only get better. 1
Author MoveAlong Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Thanks for the replies. I am trying very hard to get over it. It's not a quick process; it has honestly ripped my heart open. The bright side is that I will never fall for another person's words again; I learn fast. There can be trust, but there is never forever. My ex was obsessed with forever...oh the irony. Silly as it is...I have a false sense of hope that stems from stories from friends. Blah blah, she will come back, they always do. The good news is that I'm doing stuff, and pulling myself together...more so than before. I'm finally able to concentrate for more than an hour. It was quite a struggle before. Must....crawl...out of....hole.... 1
Author MoveAlong Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Hate to break it to you, but the hope is already gone, sorry. All you're doing now is hanging onto the past. You're still early in the process, it gets better. If 7 weeks is early...when does this madness end???? haha
reddragon588 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 If 7 weeks is early...when does this madness end???? haha It's a process, keep at it. Just keep moving forward, don't worry about the time, worry about the progress. 1
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