Sarahk67 Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 K so ive been dating my bf for 9 months. He has only slept with one girl so he's quite inexperienced. However he doesnt know that im a virgin and im afraid of what he'll think and if he'll ebd things :/. Do guys scare easily from hearing hirls are virgins or am i overreacting? ? :/
d0nnivain Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 It depends on your age. Under 20 no, it doesn't scare them. Over 30, they are going to be concerned.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 As a guy: wouldn't bother me. Some guys are different. Some love to have a virgin. To others, it doesn't matter. You'll be fine
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 I've read your past threads. I think you should reveal that you are a virgin. Being a Virgin is not bad. It is not some disease, in which you have to hide it from him. Any foundation built on lies...will crumble. He may even be understanding. Since, in the modern era of life...being a virgin is some disease, lol. He may understand the social fears you have.
FrankieFrank Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Would be ideal for me as I am one too.
ponchsox Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Guys usually like being the one pop your cherry
mutualove Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Do girls mind that I'd prefer a virgin rather than someone who's not?? To me it's a good thing.And if that bothers your bf then it only shows his shallowness and your better off without him.
Elliotte Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Nine months in and he doesn't know you're a virgin yet? That doesn't seem like a healthy situation at all. Nine months seems REALLY long to have not gotten into at least TALKING about sex. My first gf and I were both virgins and we took each other's at about 4 months of dating. I know different couples go at different speeds but...9 months of him not knowing you're a virgin and you still being worried about how he reacts seems incredibly drawn out!
dichotomy Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 I have been with two virgins in the past - and found out at the time of sex. One was a real realtionship and did not bother me at all, in fact I appreciated it. We had several loving years as BF/GF after that. Nice and I look at that as special to me and her. The other clearly wanted a ONS with me, and general I am not in to ONS at all, but caved in - and was extra uncomfortable when she confessed to me she was a virgin (again as were are both naked and already hot and heavy). Also um.. to be a bit frank, there can be issues with vigins first times physically, or at least there was for me and her.
Author Sarahk67 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Posted December 16, 2013 Well we were in a relationship for 3 months and then broke it off and then got back together so it has been roughly 9 months but not consecutive months...i told him tonight and turns out he didnt mind that i was a virgin and he said it doesnt change anything he still thinks im great! im so relieved and thanks for all your advice! x 1
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