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Hey there

 

After being that person, who loses his first serious love.

 

And went no contact...

 

-8 months later on reflection of Nc-

 

For those who are burning and longing for there ex back, STAY

STRONG. The results of nc brought me: after months to just wish them well in going our separate ways, restored my mental health and also my physical health, removed the possibility of a toxic situation (being there lap dog/reoccurring infatuation/getting my hopes up for a second chance by remaining in communication).

 

Dont get me wrong i miss the companionship, but nc taught me not to miss them and to move forward.

 

 

What are/where the positives of nc for you?

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I'm glad NC has done well for you. I think it's pretty essential especially when you are in a lot of pain over losing that person. There are times when I convince myself that my ex might be waiting for me to contact her or that possibly I did not fight hard enough to keep her, but I always come to realize that that is a load of crap. If you truly care about an ex and want him/her back, the thing that will maximize your chances of getting them back is NC

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Well after 40+ days of NC I'm not counting anymore. It sucked at first and now I realize it was a blessing in disguise. I am back to my happy self and not with a man who literally sucked the happiness right out of me. He brought me down and didn't fulfill or enrich my life by any means. No contact has also forced me to look ahead and to the other wonderful and happy people out in the world. I have made a few new friends and if I would of been with mr miserable that wouldn't of been possible.

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NC allows me to heal.

NC allows me to take control of my life.

NC allows me to focus on other things in my life.

NC helps me look to the future and not in the past.

NC shows my ex I am strong and no longer want them back.

NC helps me to date again and start another relationship.

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NC allows me to heal.

NC allows me to take control of my life.

NC allows me to focus on other things in my life.

NC helps me look to the future and not in the past.

NC shows my ex I am strong and no longer want them back.

NC helps me to date again and start another relationship.

 

NC did all this^^^ for me too.....

as well as allowing me to be responsible for myself and free to love again

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