ponchsox Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 One week since i started NC. I can't stop thinking of her.. I go out , I'm trying to have fun I laugh and all my friends say that I'm doing really well .... but they don't know that inside I'm dying each day. She changed her status to single again.... So sad. Looking at her Facebook is breaking NC. Who cares if she's single again? She doesn't want you. Move on.
Author David87 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 (edited) Looking at her Facebook is breaking NC. Who cares if she's single again? She doesn't want you. Move on. I care I'm such an idiot. I'll stop looking at her facebook.... The thing is I'm weak only here in real life I put my ''happy mask'', Edited December 18, 2013 by David87
organizedchaos Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 One week since i started NC. I can't stop thinking of her.. I go out , I'm trying to have fun I laugh and all my friends say that I'm doing really well .... but they don't know that inside I'm dying each day. She changed her status to single again.... So sad. Block her so you won't look. She has made her feelings clear. 1
jimloveslips Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 because my happines depends on her.... no it doesn't, you just think it does right now. soon as you get in another girls pants you won't even remember her name... 1
Chi townD Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 One week since i started NC. I can't stop thinking of her.. I go out , I'm trying to have fun I laugh and all my friends say that I'm doing really well .... but they don't know that inside I'm dying each day. She changed her status to single again.... So sad. And how do you know she changed her status to single again? Dude, if you know this information, then you're not in NC. You are still involved in her life if you are tracking her through social media. 1
Author David87 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 I get your point, I probably deserve this since I've invested this much love and soul in this relationship and for what?????so she can dumpe me and stump all over my heart and throw my love and me at the dumpster....I will stop looking at her facebook page ... and I will date this "new" girl and she will probably dump me ass well because I realise now that love is a lie this days, it dosn't exist or may be i'm faling in love with the wrong people ...who knows screw it....
jimloveslips Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I realise now that love is a lie BS. It's what makes life worth living. 1
Author David87 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 It's all about the dumper, let's protect the dumper because it's our fault that they dumped us , because if they realy loved us we wouldn't be in this situation...... and they hurt as well pour things.... omg for real...I know that If I was the best boyfriend in the world I wouldn't been dumped but for real, why I'm the only one hurting when they are having so much fun and flirting with new guys and blosom .... omg I know I have my isues and that I could have done something to save the relationship but I was(and still am) the only one that is willing to fight for this relationship.....
Author David87 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 I've been dumped twice and it hurt like hell, there are times when i still think of my ex that dumped me in 2012, I can even imagine how much it will hurt this time...I had relationships with many girls and I dumped about seven of them, I was sorry but I moved on with little remourse, and they cried and begged me to stay with them ... i didn't cared less and moved forward. But with the last girl that dumped me two and a half weeks ago I't was diferent, we clicked and there was chemistry.
Haydn Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 David it will get better, takes time and you will fall in love again. Its harsh to say but the chemistry was no longer good for her. Do you really want to be with someone who does not want you? Seems black now but it will ease up friend/
Author David87 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 David it will get better, takes time and you will fall in love again. Its harsh to say but the chemistry was no longer good for her. Do you really want to be with someone who does not want you? Seems black now but it will ease up friend/ Thanks Haydn, love just fades away sometimes. The last month of our relationship she was meen to me sometimes never have I once got mad or yelld at her I endured it an tried to make it work. And what hurts the most is that she told me a week ago that it is our mistake for hooking up when we are so different, and a month ago she told me that she will be by my side all of her life and where I will go she will go .... wtf
jimloveslips Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 I dumped about seven of them, I was sorry but I moved on with little remourse, and they cried and begged me to stay with them ... i didn't cared less and moved forward... Hey, well now it's your turn! Take some time to read what you wrote and realize how hypocritical it is. Whatever the reason you dumped them is probably the same reason she dumped you. She just didn't like you, didn't want to spend the rest of her life with you. Get over it.
Author David87 Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 Hey, well now it's your turn! Take some time to read what you wrote and realize how hypocritical it is. Whatever the reason you dumped them is probably the same reason she dumped you. She just didn't like you, didn't want to spend the rest of her life with you. Get over it. There is a big difference.... when I was dumped the first time it was after a 3 year relationship and the second time after a 1.5 year relationship .... we loved each other very much. When I was the dumper I was involved in relationships no longer than two months with no attachment or love for those girls..
Author David87 Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 Someone please tell me, was it a mistake going out with this new girl so soon after my ex dumped me? I feel so guilty because deep down I hope that she will come back...Is it better to stay single for a couple of months?
Haydn Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 David, moving on will make you happier in the long run. Shes not coming back, you have to tell yourself that. And if she does its her that has to do all the the work. Make yourself unavailable! Someone please tell me, was it a mistake going out with this new girl so soon after my ex dumped me? I feel so guilty because deep down I hope that she will come back...Is it better to stay single for a couple of months?
Author David87 Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 David, moving on will make you happier in the long run. Shes not coming back, you have to tell yourself that. And if she does its her that has to do all the the work. Make yourself unavailable! Wow, Thanks Haydn and LS community. You are right shes not coming back because she is too proud and has a huge ego. All I can do now is improve myself to be a better boyfriend so this will never happen to me.
Haydn Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Keep going David. here with you friend. When you can PM. Give a bell. haydn Wow, Thanks Haydn and LS community. You are right shes not coming back because she is too proud and has a huge ego. All I can do now is improve myself to be a better boyfriend so this will never happen to me. 1
Author David87 Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 I want to be prepared for the day when I will get a text from her(that day may never come) but let's say that now or next week I get a text that says "I miss u" or " I hate u" or something.... what do I do then? I still want her back....(Im at one week and one day of NC)
ponchsox Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 You have to look at being dumped as an opportunity to date other attractive women. You're a free agent now.
Haydn Posted December 19, 2013 Posted December 19, 2013 Ignore her David. She has to kick down your door before you react. QUOTE=David87;5411813]I want to be prepared for the day when I will get a text from her(that day may never come) but let's say that now or next week I get a text that says "I miss u" or " I hate u" or something.... what do I do then? I still want her back....(Im at one week and one day of NC) 1
Author David87 Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 Next week it's Christmas... I can't imagine how hard it will be This is the first Christmas that I will spend alone in 7 years..
Haydn Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Like another day friend. Embrace it and enjoy the spirit of xmas. Next week it's Christmas... I can't imagine how hard it will be This is the first Christmas that I will spend alone in 7 years.. 1
Lilo85 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 This is coming from someone who was crying and begging like a crazy person two weeks ago. Do not lose your dignity. You annoy her?? That's not nice. You seem to have trouble keeping NC. Delete her phone number. Delete your fb account. You don't want to be with someone who feels annoyed by you after so long, it's messed up. 1
Author David87 Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 This is coming from someone who was crying and begging like a crazy person two weeks ago. Do not lose your dignity. You annoy her?? That's not nice. You seem to have trouble keeping NC. Delete her phone number. Delete your fb account. You don't want to be with someone who feels annoyed by you after so long, it's messed up. I'm in NC for a week and a 3 days, I tried to talk to her after a week since the BU and again after 3 days, she replyed but she was very cold and she told me that it's our fault for getting together because we are to diferent. Since then I've disappeared from the face of the earth.
Haydn Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I think David is doing very well. Yes he might have begged etc.. So did i after the break up. No shame, just moving on and learning. dont be so hard on the boy! This is coming from someone who was crying and begging like a crazy person two weeks ago. Do not lose your dignity. You annoy her?? That's not nice. You seem to have trouble keeping NC. Delete her phone number. Delete your fb account. You don't want to be with someone who feels annoyed by you after so long, it's messed up. 1
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