friendship went from more than friends to not talking......

[SmilingMartin]

I have decided to come here once again for advice, i dont know why im doing it. Maybe its because i am listening to Dashboad Confessionals or its because my feelings are getting the better of me. OR BOTH!

 

Anyways, during the summer i met this girl...we were just friends, but it developed into something more than being friends. I developed a lot of feelings for this girl because i thought we were gonna get in a relationship in the future. One night i get a call from her and she said she made out with another guy and that she had a big crush on him.

 

BAM! there goes everything, it went from us talkin a lot on the phone, hangin out a lot to nothing. I see her in the hallways (school) maybe 2 - 3 times a day and we just smile at each other.

 

I miss her company, i miss her friendship and most of all i miss her as a person.

 

I wanna call her, should i call her? Would it be weird for me to just call her after 3 months of not talkin to her or hangin out with her?

 

How would you girls feel if a guy did that?? I would really like some feedback because it is driving me loco.

[7on]

My heart goes out to ya buddy, I'm in the same pickle - except for my girl hasn't made out with another boy to my knowledge. We've just been talking a lot less - it just kills me. She has a job and also bar hopes at night. Now I know what girls do in bars so I get worried. About us and all. It's not that I don't trust her, it's that we aren't serious yet at all. So anything is game. or anyone... She does get plastered too, so I worry about that too.

 

Personally I couldn't have waited 3 months if something like that happened to me.