anomaly Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 I am looking for some advice and some perspective if you have any. I've been dating a woman for the past 2 months and it's been good for the most part. We're both in our 30s and have had some relationships in our life. After 4 weeks she started asking me to a lot of social events with her friends. I of course said yes taking that as a good sign that we were getting closer. But since then, we've only had 1 date over the past month with just the 2 of us. I've asked and she's either been busy or cancelled on me last minute. Am I overly concerned that she only wants to spend time with me in the presence of her friends? I am sensing a serious issue for her with closeness and intimacy. The last 1:1 date didn't even last long (2 hours) and we spend all night at parties with her friends.
Author anomaly Posted December 16, 2013 Author Posted December 16, 2013 jan_ may, we have briefly talked after I said something about it but I haven't specifically asked that because of the lack of time together and the quick short communications we have. I've been meaning to have that talk but it never seems like the right time or enough time.
Author anomaly Posted December 16, 2013 Author Posted December 16, 2013 Could be. Thanks for the advice.
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