pbgunz35 Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Long story short 3 weeks ago I broke up with my exgirlfriend because we were arguing a lot and was stressed out well after two days I asked if we could speak we got together and talked and she told me she is not taking me back because I hurt her. To this day we still speak here in there. Anything from talkinging about our relationship to just talking. She forgives me how I acted in the relationship but I took her for granted I promised her it would never be like that again and I do wanna commit to her.. forawhile we were hanging out at night but she came to relize either we are broke up or together and I don't want to be together so I left tryed no contact but she knows I'm just ignoring. However she will call me here and there and says she wants me to come over and cuddle acourse the nice guy I am I go over and stay the night with her she tells me she loves me as I tell her I love her to. I'm just so lost on what to do I wanf her back in my life and its hard not having her in my life.. She asks me if I'm talking to any girls as I am not. As she tells me the same that she is not either. She will even text me and tells me she misses me helping her and being around making her feel better.. but I'm tired of being put through pain should I continue to keep by her by my side or leave it be. I love her alot and do wanna commit to her. She has told me one thing that worrys her about getting back together is that who knows if ill go back to my old ways and I'm just changing to be with her. I've told her I'm changing to improve my life. I'm at a dead end..
megatron24 Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Your situation sounds alot like my current one..only difference we have a child together...i would just keep things lite with her don't mention getting back together..she already knows u feel that way...hope everything works out for you bro.
Simplysimon Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Tell her you love her and want to be her man not her friend. She's keeping you around to ease the pain and fill the gaps. Walk away and mean it. Do not contact her drop off the face of the earth. If she wants you she will be back. Ignore all her calls for 4 -6 weeks . If she comes back stay in control if she doesn't she wasn't worth a place in your heart anyway. Do not fail grit your teeth and push through. Good luck 1
LifeWithoutMiMi Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 Tell her you love her and want to be her man not her friend. She's keeping you around to ease the pain and fill the gaps. Walk away and mean it. Do not contact her drop off the face of the earth. If she wants you she will be back. Ignore all her calls for 4 -6 weeks . If she comes back stay in control if she doesn't she wasn't worth a place in your heart anyway. Do not fail grit your teeth and push through. Good luck I agree with Simon. For a healthy relationship, you should walk away and let her ask you back. I know this is not easy and I have been there.
Author pbgunz35 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 It very hard right now to walk away I have stayed at her house the past 3 nights and she tells me I love you. I bring up getting back together and she does not want to get back together because I took her for granted. I broke up with her and waited 2 days and called her and I really want her back she has acouple guys texting her also which I worry about one of them I'm not worried about but the other guy had been interested in her for awhile now and has been texting her. She has told me he has not asked her on a date as she would turn him down right now because she is emotionally not ready to date anyone yet as she still has me on her mind and does not want to be seen in the public with no one else.. we always talk and I tell het how sorry I am and that I wanna commit to her but she tells me all the time I wish you relized this before you broke up with me.. I just want her back so bad! She had even told me she does not want me to do for other girls as much as I help her out. I looked thru her phone just being noisy and found out who she was talking to but she told me she has looked thru my phone also.. we are both still in love I just feel for some reason she does not want to accept me back I'm supposed to go to her house tonight and make dinner after work and tomorrow I'm taking her out to eat.. I feel like we r together but she is not all my.. if I do the no contact it will push her away n she will be mad no contact is not for everyone and here its different she didn't dump me I dumped her and want her back.
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