poopie Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 5 years ago when i was 24 i dated a girl who was 21 while overseas. we dated for a month and then continued the relationship for another year online because she planned to migrate to where i live to study. during the year we learnt a lot about each other, enough to talk about our future together and hypothetical children. after a year she broke up with because her parents were sending her off to another country to further her studies. the breakup really had no closure 3 years pass and we dont keep in touch, and i have been dating another girl for 2 years. i am in love my current gf but i dont feel the spark and passion i once had with my ex. its love but not skipping a heart beat love. she is good to me and i do anything and everything for her. since my ex and i had our relationship cut short, i am always finding myself thinking about her when im alone... what if* early this year my ex started to contact me again and a flood of feelings came, however i am in a stable relationship. i dont want to break up with my current gf because she is good to me and im not an ass, but i could have the oppurtunity to follow my dreams on what i once had with my ex. what should i do.
Fangorn Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Don't abandon the good thing you have with your current partner for the image of your ex.
Robbyrob Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 5 years ago when i was 24 i dated a girl who was 21 while overseas. we dated for a month and then continued the relationship for another year online because she planned to migrate to where i live to study. during the year we learnt a lot about each other, enough to talk about our future together and hypothetical children. after a year she broke up with because her parents were sending her off to another country to further her studies. the breakup really had no closure 3 years pass and we dont keep in touch, and i have been dating another girl for 2 years. i am in love my current gf but i dont feel the spark and passion i once had with my ex. its love but not skipping a heart beat love. she is good to me and i do anything and everything for her. since my ex and i had our relationship cut short, i am always finding myself thinking about her when im alone... what if* early this year my ex started to contact me again and a flood of feelings came, however i am in a stable relationship. i dont want to break up with my current gf because she is good to me and im not an ass, but i could have the oppurtunity to follow my dreams on what i once had with my ex. what should i do. wow this is a tough one. I am in the exact situation. my ex and me we split because of her and my career. I wished i was in your position without having a gf and being free for her. the thing is that she will study there at least 3 years (in Hungary) and i might move to latin America. We are not in touch and I stay NC. but what I actually want to say is, that ill probably feel the exact same way like you. with her I had the best time ever, I dont know if Ill find it that way again even if ill be in love with someone. in a way it sounds like you are sticking too much to the time with your ex. she has been you ideal girlfriend. but now you have someone new in your life and you are in love butits not the same what you had before. i always think that things happen for a reason, and that things were meant to happen. but in this case, Id try to value your current gf more. you should be glad to have her. and maybe youll realize that she means even more to you than you thought. if this is not the case, you need to be honest with her and yourself, if this is really what you want in life. (you said that a flood of feelings came back) at the end the main thing is that you are happy with what you have. try to follow your heart.but dont forget people change, and she might have changed in a way that you could like or possibly dislike good luck man p.s. i hope in 3 years ill have the chance to post in here saying that im in touch again with my ex who left to another country
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