amymarieca Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Hello everyone, So I've been seeing this guy for about a month. I'm 32 and he's 31. He's very sweet, has a good job, and treats me well. Last night we slept together for the first time. I wanted to wait a while before sleeping with him to make sure he's boyfriend material. After we had sex he dropped a huge bomb. He admitted to me that he lost his virginity to a prostitute! He was 26 when it happened. I knew he seemed a bit inexperienced with women sexually, but I wanted to see this as a positive thing. I have no clue what to think! Would you ever date someone who did this? Is this a red flag I should be worried about? I'm not sure if my discomfort with this is unreasonable or not. Thanks
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 The being a virgin at age 26 is more concerning than losing virginity to a prostitute. Losing your virginity to a prostitute is not much different than having a drunken hookup with a stranger. But, someone who makes it to 26 without finding a sexual partner has a profound inability to connect with people on a romantic level. He likely has a lot of baggage and hangups as a result that will manifest themselves sooner or later... 1
d0nnivain Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 It would bother me & I would want to get tested at this point because irrational or not, the safety / health issues worry me more than the moral ones I take it as a positive that he shared. He's certainly not the 1st man to ever use a pro but if it was once years ago, I'm pretty sure I could get past it.
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