Spiraldestroyer Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 (edited) Hi there,I'm Spiral.I'd really appreciate it alot for anybody willing to read this thread and help me out...This is a very long story but I'll try to cut it short so its readable.Thanks alot guys and gals :') Quick re-cap about me: I'm a very bubbly person who can get along with anyone as I'm rather abid childish and always very happy about everything.From the fact I'd get up in morining to see the sun to be able to eat my favourite meal would make me the happiest person on this earth...So...I'm starting to become different because of this...My friends have told me that... I met this girl in highschool 2years ago,we actually had a very close relationship but this is where it gets weird... 2 years ago before Valentines,she had instructed me not to give her anything for valentine.So when I really never bought anything,she asked 1 day before valentines why I never went to get anything for her,so i ran to the nearest flourist shop to get a pink-reddish rose for her. After several months I confessed my love to her but she rejected me completely.So I stopped texting her etc ever since... Then she started texting and calling me,trying to get close to me over the years from 2011-2013.Well,it worked! At the start of the year I fell in love with her again.We skyped everyday and texted.But there was a very odd incident in school.Her friends scolded and shouted at me for 'forcing' her to skype with me and cursed at me.Before you say anything,yes it was that random and even I had no idea what was going on. But that all changed one day when ALLL of her friends confronted me,asking if I stalked her home/Chased after her and harrassed her to skype.Technically that wasn't possible since I spent nearly all my time at home studying for my Cambridge examination.So there was no way I had the time to stalk her at all.So,after telling them my side of the story.They believed me and was wondering why she lied to them.So did I, why did she lie? My conclusion was that she wanted the attention,being in love with her I let the incident go. She broke my heart again when she told me that she would never love me 2 weeks after the incident.So...I stopped texting her,but she instead initiated the conversations nearly everyday.She'd call me when she was free or asked if she wanna go out for movie... Call me a moron but...I fell in love with her again.Then the cycle repeats where we chat with each other everyday like a couple but I'd get my heart smashed when she turns me down. Obviously this couldnt go on,so giving up was upon the horizon.All of a sudden,while chatting with her friend,her friend tells me that she does love me.But there was a reason she wont tell me that or even any of her friends. I took on the liberty to press on as I really wanted us to work out,then suddenly while in a conversation with her she all of a sudden wants me to forget her?! She starts ignoring me completely for 2weeks.Which totally devastated and turned my world upside down... :'( BUTTTT.She then requests for a tux coat for her brother to lend,soo today we met each other under the rain and had a few laughs and fun just like before~<3 As well as for me to draw something for her sister which I did However...Just a few minutes ago she told me she's gonna ignore me again because she wants me to forget her....What the honest fishsticks is going on??!?! :'(( Even now her friend whom told me that she loved me said she herself isnt even sure now!! But she still believes she likes me... Please help me guys,this relationship I have with her is starting to destroy my will to live and I'm starting to slip into depression...Thanks :') Edited December 15, 2013 by Spiraldestroyer
Sand Man Dan Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 (edited) What's up man. I read your whole post. The girl is young and restless. There seems to at least be some attraction to You on her part, but you act way too clingy and arent mysterious enough. Yes unfortunately you will have to play games with this one. You'll never get something concrete, reliable, and satisfying with her at the age you guys are at. I'm only 22 myself, but it is much of the same; I'm just not prone to getting sucked into the games anymore. Stop pursuing her completely, hang out with her only on occasions she has initiated the hangout, and contact her only in response to her contacting you. The girl you describe will be all over you. Edited December 15, 2013 by Sand Man Dan 1
Author Spiraldestroyer Posted December 16, 2013 Author Posted December 16, 2013 What's up man. I read your whole post. The girl is young and restless. There seems to at least be some attraction to You on her part, but you act way too clingy and arent mysterious enough. Yes unfortunately you will have to play games with this one. You'll never get something concrete, reliable, and satisfying with her at the age you guys are at. I'm only 22 myself, but it is much of the same; I'm just not prone to getting sucked into the games anymore. Stop pursuing her completely, hang out with her only on occasions she has initiated the hangout, and contact her only in response to her contacting you. The girl you describe will be all over you. Kk,thanks man I'll try that!
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