wayji Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 We were both freshman in college and we started working in the same department (he recommended me and I got hired). We became best friends and then little by little we realized we liked each other. I thought he was really happy with me, but we didn't tell other people about our relationship. We kept it a secret, going out alone together and only kissing or hugging in private. I was completely shocked and devastated when he broke up with me. He gave me a million of excuses, with the most solid being that he didn't want to be with me. That he had lost his feelings for me in just a few weeks. He says it doesn't have anything to do with me, but I feel this is just a lie to make things better. When we were dating, it was during our spring break and we were both working full time at school. I'm scared that when the semester started, he realized he'd rather spend time with his friends than me or that maybe he was just using me. I can't tell because we were hooking up in secret and it had to be planned. It really hurts because he said he loved me and cared about me and then just a few weeks later said it all went away. It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. I would have done anything to make him happy and fought for weeks with him trying to fix this. Now we work together, and I can't be friends with him because of the possibility he was using me. I feel this way for a lot of different reasons. I know the faster I get over this, if we could become friends, maybe he would change his mind. I am very confused.
Simplysimon Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Has it got someone else. Why be secretive? I would forget him and move on. And don't be friends that only helps them get over you. Your better than that. Find someone who is proud to stand next to you and loves you for who you are and what you are....beautiful.. 1
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