CAdude82 Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 I'm in a situation myself where I have tried so many things just to try to win somebody back when clearly, they are not interested. I know I am worth more than subjecting myself to all the pain and mental suffering just to try to get somebody back who doesn't want me back in the first place. My uncle who lost his wife of over 30 years to cancer is now living with an alcoholic who hits him and verbally abuses him just because he doesn't want to be alone. I'm sure his heart is telling him he loves her, but why does he think he is worth being hit and called names? His wife (my aunt) was one of the most awesome people on earth and he has replaced her with an abusive alcoholic. My aunt never touched a drop of the stuff since I have been living. I know of another person who got back together with her ex. One day he tells her that he needs space. That she is always around. He comes home and she's there, he wakes up and she's there. Yet, she is still with him. She said she is starting school, so he will get his space. Why be with somebody who says that to you? Love is the craziest emotion! It makes a person absolutely blind and stupid! Heartbreak is another emotion that is the worst kind of pain I will probably ever experience. Why do we try to get back with the people who have inflicted so much pain on us and can sit there and watch (or ignore) the fact that they have caused so much pain in our minds and hearts that it can be unbearable at times? Yet, we still try and hope to some day get back with them. Emotions sure are crazy things!
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