Iguanna Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 I find this "scare the guy off" phrase really ridiculous as well. If the guy is gonna get scared from something I do or say he better do it at the beginning before I get attached with him cause this will show me that we are not meant to be together.
Sand Man Dan Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 (edited) If you scare a guy off for showing and telling him through open communication in a non awkward way, EXACTLY how you feel, GOOD! As far as your make out, if you tell him that's not your thing, well, even if its not, there's a good chance he isn't going to believe what you tell him because your actions go against that. This potentially sets you up to be in the situation where you've unknowingly activated a potential player's "chase sequence" (because you gave a taste early on). This, unfortunately, can be tough to discern from a decent man's "chase sequence" Edited December 15, 2013 by Sand Man Dan Spelling, yo
Iguanna Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Apparently we're very skittish It's not that. When a man really knows what he wants and is ready to compromise if needed to get it, he will be open to things men mostly hate, like analyzing, whining, commitment etc. This is the kind of man I'm interested in and it's better for someone to show me he is not like this from the start so that neither of us will bother.
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