Marine0311 Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 The last week or so I have been thinking of my ex girlfriend a lot more than usual. I still love her as my first love, but wasnt sure if i was actually moved on. After 6-7 months of NC I sent her a message two days ago via text. I was the dumpee. I never begged or pleaded and was NC right away. I basically just told her she was a coward for how she ended our three year relationship.. "i think you're a coward for how you ended things, i dont hate you like you think. hope life is great." I said nothing more than that. She has not answered me and I honestly do not feel too bad about it. I was a little upset and my ego wasnt boosted as I hoped it would if she answered me. Overall, this was my closure. She never gave me a reason to breakup, she just did. I always thought shed come back, but now I know for sure I am moved on that I am not crushed by her ignoring me. I am pursuing this new girl I have been hanging out with for about two months. I felt horrible not committing to her because I wondered about my ex. This was my final step in the moving on process and I am finally ready to commit to the new girl. For all you who are reading this in hope you reconcile with your ex, think about the possibilities that are out there if you dont.
organizedchaos Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 The last week or so I have been thinking of my ex girlfriend a lot more than usual. I still love her as my first love, but wasnt sure if i was actually moved on. After 6-7 months of NC I sent her a message two days ago via text. I was the dumpee. I never begged or pleaded and was NC right away. I basically just told her she was a coward for how she ended our three year relationship.. "i think you're a coward for how you ended things, i dont hate you like you think. hope life is great." I said nothing more than that. She has not answered me and I honestly do not feel too bad about it. I was a little upset and my ego wasnt boosted as I hoped it would if she answered me. Overall, this was my closure. She never gave me a reason to breakup, she just did. I always thought shed come back, but now I know for sure I am moved on that I am not crushed by her ignoring me. I am pursuing this new girl I have been hanging out with for about two months. I felt horrible not committing to her because I wondered about my ex. This was my final step in the moving on process and I am finally ready to commit to the new girl. For all you who are reading this in hope you reconcile with your ex, think about the possibilities that are out there if you dont. What you said to her was purely emotional and says to her you're still not completely over her. Congrats for fuelling her ego and confirming any reason she had to break up with you. If you were truly over her you would be indifferent and not care to send her this message. What a bizarre text to receive from someone after not speaking for 7 months.
StyleOnEm Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 That was a terrible text, but if it makes you feel better then more power to ya.
Mariposa10 Posted December 16, 2013 Posted December 16, 2013 That was a terrible text, but if it makes you feel better then more power to ya. Yeah, it was terrible, but it's done... so let's not beat a dead horse. Good luck on healing.
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