barbossa Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 if she is richer than me either from 1)making more money or 2) coming from a much higher socio-economic background - I feel as if i would not be able to give her the things she wants is used to So i just friends zone her. Some people say well if she likes you then she is willing to compromise? But if (for example) her ex/current suitor is driving a 7 series bimmer and taking her to fancy places I just can't compare. My camry just can't compare I do not think women can regress in terms of Money If anything women's expectations only rise as their own incomes do. Check out Match.com profiles to verify.... How can i tell if a girl is rich and how much she cares about money? How much of her daily attires are designer/ designer bags VS not not always the case but a good sign. I had more money I'd dress nicer too. most people would Rich girls should be with rich guys right? granted they like each other
incelveteran Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 In essence, you want to detect Golddiggers, right?
BillJJ Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Coming from somebody who is a music journalist, musician and songwriter I could come on here and say I am better than all the members on this site because I have probably wasted more money than most of them will see in their entire lifetime but then I would be being an egomaniac and I honestly don’t think having more money makes me better than others and either should you. Who cares if a woman has more money than you? The woman I love works part time at Spotlight and she is having trouble paying her bills because she just lost her job at the bank and it sure as hell doesn’t make any difference to me. One of my cousins is married to a guy who is essentially a househusband that stays home and minds their kids and only works weekend and since they have been married for 10 years it obviously doesn’t bother her either. There is more to life than money and you need to get over your low self-esteem issues.
Versacehottie Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Hmmm, well in my opinion you are really talking about two different things which overlap in some cases. *A rich girl (from money or her own hard work) VS. *A golddigger or materialistic girl A rich girl may not necessarily be a golddiger or that materialistic. Of course, she could be rich AND materialistic, which does happen sometimes. I honestly think you would be stupid to write off a girl just because she is comes from a better socioeconomic background or earns a lot of money or simply more than you do. Think of it like this: she would be able to buy her own stuff so in essence you could possibly be avoiding the golddigger syndrome. Lot of rich girls are actually pretty generous and share the wealth. A lot know that the imbalance makes a guy feel uncomfortable and don't really bring up money in a way that would. Hopefully you can change your thinking on these type of girls--you are most likely missing out on some really good ones But in your defense, you are not alone in being the only guy that is intimidated or avoids rich girls altogether. Get your ego in check and re-evaluate. A Golddigger can come from any sort of background and earn anywhere from a $0 to a lot. They are users and use stuff to validate who they are and have you BUY their affection and attention. Bottomless pit--AVOID. AVOID. AVOID. Fair enough, AVOID. 1
soccerrprp Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 barbossa, all about values. whether she makes(has) more money than you or not, it's about values. i'm dating a woman who makes 3x more than I do, but she is very modest in her lifestyle. believe me, there are women who have sensible values, but you need to discover those while getting to know them. don't just friend-zone them w/o giving them a chance. 1
MrCastle Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 The first part I don't see a problem. If she makes more than you, so what? Dick is dick bro. All those female celebrities out there married to or dating non celebrity men make an embarrassingly more amount of money than them I'm sure. Rich girls gotta get dicked down too bro. Money plays no role. However, the second point I understand. If a girl is used to fancy things, and/or dates men who make a lot of money, that could be a problem. I could see why you would feel like she's out of your "league," but again I say -- dick is dick. If you lay it right, money is no option. Alright it's not just dick -- having chemistry and being a good person help too. But you know what I mean. Money doesn't matter. 1
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