zilverenvlinder Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 When my bf and I first met each other, we were going at it about five times a week. Sometimes six or seven. This was for the first month or two. Now it's about once a week. Or more. Sometimes two weeks. But he still wants me to sleep with him every single night. He likes me there after he gets outta work and we just sit there and watch movies or TV and sometimes hang out with our friends and then we brush our teeth together like old married people and go to bed. ? I'm not married yet! I'm 20!!! I want sex!!! Why is he going celibate on me?! (Oh, we don't have sex that often but he just loooves getting bj's.) Whaaat am I supposed to do?? I guess I still have my teenage hormones and he just outgrew them. (H'es 24).
iceisles Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 It's not uncommon for sex drive to dissipate after awhile, although if he still likes BJ's, it sounds like he may be getting lazy. Lol. Have you tried talking to him about this? Maybe he doesn't feel like he can perform well that often.
Author zilverenvlinder Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles although if he still likes BJ's, it sounds like he may be getting lazy. Haha, that's what I was thinking too. Laziness. Well, I hope this is normal. I'm just a little horny.
FolderWife Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 ha ha! It does sound like he's getting lazey. My hubby wants bj's all the time too...but he never makes an effort for me. So, New Years Eve, I told him that I wanted oral. I had just shaved, but he wanted to clean up the spots I miss *I can't SEE down there* so he lovingly straightened up my stuff. Then, he went down on me. I was SO TURNED ON! But when it came time for the sex, I was so wet, that he started going limp, due to the lack of friction....and I couldn't feel anything either! So I started to go down on him, but by then, I was so angry, that I didn't want to any more. Not angry at him, just angry at the fates. I said, "No wonder you never go down on me...when you do, I get to freaking WET!" So the next night, we had a me going down on him, him fingering me session. The next day, it was the same thing, then we had a little sex, until I finished, then I turned around and finished him. Then that evening, I walked up to him naked, handed him a dildo, and sat on the coffee table in front of him, and he took care of me. So now, I'm less resentful. I was getting pissed that whenever he wanted to get lucky, it was all up to me. Now I've learned that *duh* If I ask, I shall receive
iceisles Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by zilverenvlinder Haha, that's what I was thinking too. Laziness. Well, I hope this is normal. I'm just a little horny. I'll PM you my number. J/K.
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