crazimonkey Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 OK, over the summer i had at one time met this person named Harry. I had been dating his best friend (he didn't know that though) and he fell for me... as i got to know him more and more the more i started to like him. I felt very comfortable with him and he's so easy to talk to. He asked me but i didn't know what to say b/c i wasn't sure if my parents would allow it, well my parents said it was ok but his mom chimed in and said we weren't alowd to date because my problems would become the families problems. She told us maybe we should just be "good friend!" Neither one of us want that and we both have extremely strong feelings for each other. Ever since that he barely talks to me and i'm afraid he doesn't want to talk to me or he's not alowd!
Barby Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 I'm so confused..yesterday you said your boyfriend was "forced" to break up with you..is that the "same" guy you're talking about now? If it was just yesterday what do you mean by... Ever since that he barely talks to me and i'm afraid he doesn't want to talk to me or he's not alowd! We were all concerned about the problem you brought up yesterday (assuming it was true) now this following post just doesn't make a whole heck of a lot of sense...can you please explain?? If this is a different guy then you need to Slooooooooooooooow down on hopping from boy to boy. If this boy isn't talking to you, chances are he probably is taking his family's advice and steering clear of you....you can't force him to talk to you and with the other problems you've mentioned (in your post yesterday) right now you're probably better off not dating until you get some help.
Author crazimonkey Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 alright but i called him he hung up on me, i IM'ed him he didn't answer and he said something to me yesterday before he logged off that really scared me.
Author crazimonkey Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 he said he was going to commit suicide basically
Barby Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Have you actually called his home and asked his parents to speak with him? I would be concerned to but if you can't get ahold of him there's really nothing you can do...people sometimes say things they don't mean. Did he threaten to kill himself because he had to break up with you? And since you never answered me in your last post about your age, I'm assuming your maybe 13-15 you sound very young and I'm assuming your BF is too... This is just soooooooo much drama for people so young!
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