Keep chasing her or let her go?

[shaanvance]

I met this girl a year ago and we hit it off. I liked her but I was not ready for a relationship so I just let it go with a flow. Then 4 months later she tried to date this **** which didn't end up going no where. She didn't tell me about him until after despite us talking everyday. Nor did I ever tell her of any of the girls I took out on dates. I don't know why maybe we had feelings for each other then as well?

 

So fast rewind she broke up with her boyfriend just a few months before we actually met. She broke up as she moved to a different city. She seems to be over it now as she says she is.

 

After the Jerk I started taking her out more often, dinners, movies, drinks, just he two of us no one us. It seemed like were dating but without any label or such.

 

So one day we ended up talking and we mutually liked each other more then a friend. But she was scared that if we pursue anything more it will **** up our friendship and she didn't seem to want to get hurt again. So I have this aggressive side in me and I said I don't want to be friends, I am going to date you or nothing. So I stopped talking to her and a week later she messages being hesitant and said lets try it. However I noticed this problem she had she didn't like when people touch her and she talked about this in the past as well how she hates people touching her. So cuddling her use to irritate her as well. But I was fine with it.

 

So we somewhat dated for a month? and all of a sudden we stopped talking she was being really rude so I had self respect so we just stopped talking. A month later she messages and she was apologetic.

 

So now we are talking again and we never brought it up about dating each other or whatever was happening I thought might as well just go with the flow. So it's been 3 months going with flow and all a sudden she's like I don't think I'll be ready to date anytime soon.. I asked her why? If she likes someone else just be up front with me? or if she doesn't like me in that way just tell me just be upfront? I am not no coward who can't take it. So don't be one of those nice girls trying to let me off the hook and being friends. She said no no you know I am straight up... I like you but you know my issue. The issue she doesn't like it when people touch her and stuff like that.

 

She tries to act all strong and pretend she doesn't care but I know a few weeks later of not talking to her she'll message herself.

 

So what should I do? Wait or move on? Just ignore her? I've been thrown off my game..

[MalachiX]

Advice from a man who knows more about women than anybody:

 

[jeremy2125]

let her go. I see a cat and mouse thrill of the chase type of person in her. It's not healthy to keep chasing her.