Sososad Posted December 14, 2013 Posted December 14, 2013 Gonna keep this simple and basic. Nearly 4 years with her Broken up nearly 3 months Very little contact 3/4 texts first month One accidental bump into each other (She says life is great rubbed my nose In a all the fun she's Claiming she's having ) Says she's blocked me on Facebook and whatsapp claiming "I don't want you to know anything about my life not even my last online status ) I accepted this and left with dignity.few weeks later she sent A breadcrumb text "hey how are u" and some random question easily answered by anyone .. I ignored and kept going! So two weeks ago she pops up on Facebook In a mutual friends comments . Ok so curiosity got the better of me I checked whatsapp too and she unblocked me there too. I've done no reaction to this at all and lastly she adds me on snapchat . I know this is pretty pathetic digging/reaching here but is not a case that she's opening lines of communication? I won't contact her I'm stronger than that . But that's my feeling she wants to show me the blocks are gone.. I do miss her a lot and am not over her . Struggling a little too getting close to Christmas and the 3 month post breakup . I definitely think she's trying to get my attention on way or another . Has to start somewhere no?!
Simon Phoenix Posted December 14, 2013 Posted December 14, 2013 Not with that. That means nothing, even though you really want it to. I would ignore it and not think about it -- if she really wants anything to do with you she'll have to come a lot more correct than "hey how r u"
Author Sososad Posted December 14, 2013 Author Posted December 14, 2013 I agree with you 100% but what I'm asking is this even a shift in mood Last time she had contact she was so adamant I was not welcome one bit in her new life and not privy to any of her info ?
Winter blue Posted December 14, 2013 Posted December 14, 2013 Unblock means nothing. She might be curious about you, she might be thinking of you, but the fact she hasn't called, or knocked on your door begging you to take her back, it simply means nothing. My ex has viewed my Linkedin profile a couple of times recently without choosing to be anonymous, which I thought was quite obvious that she wants my attention, she also blocked me on facebook recently (this is at 4 months post BU). I have not had one single response to her weird actions, except I now removed her from my LinkedIn connection. She eventually called me a few days ago, I guess her curiosity has reached to a point she can't stand being ignored anymore My suggestion to you is simple, just do nothing. If she is really interested in knowing about what's happening in your life, she will reach out. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted December 14, 2013 Posted December 14, 2013 I agree with you 100% but what I'm asking is this even a shift in mood Last time she had contact she was so adamant I was not welcome one bit in her new life and not privy to any of her info ? Nah, just her checking up. Really nothing worth reading in to at this point.
na49 Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 lol she doesn't want to "show you the blocks are gone" if she wanted to do that, she'd message you "Hey Sososad, I've unblocked you" I know how torturous this time of year can be when dealing with a BU. Just bite down and endure it, because it can be hell. Also have you considered blocking her? If she ever wanted to contact you, your blocks won't stop her. Trust me.
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