1994O Posted December 14, 2013 Posted December 14, 2013 My girlfriend and I of 9 months broke up 4 days ago. we parted ways mutually but we are still in love with eachother. we are in college so some things have changed. the time we had together was amazing but recently we had been bickering over silly things, and she said she felt the timing of the relationship feels wrong. when we broke up, she was unsure if it was the right decision. she still contacts me everyday and since the break up, we have slept together twice and in that space of time it has felt like we are still together. shes not the type of girl that would string me along or mess with my head, she is an honest loving person. she seems happy when we are together. we parted ways mutually but i have only realised that i want her back in my life so badly. im in love with her and i know deep down she is the one. i have tickets for a concert next thursday that i got for the 2 of us, should i go with her? i need this girl back in my life and i feel she may want me back but im not to sure. please help i need her back
thompkevin Posted December 14, 2013 Posted December 14, 2013 Hey, You need to take a step back and stay away from her for a while. You said she is not the type of person who will not sting you along but she has already slept with you twice after the breakup and she contacts you everyday. Maybe she is doing it because she is also hurt after the breakup but it sure is stringing you along. I guess you just need to give yourself and her some time and space to figure out what you want (Read this article for more details). Let her know that you need to stay away from her to get your head straight. Don't pick up her calls for a few days. Hopefully, she will also realize that she wants to get back together.
Author 1994O Posted December 14, 2013 Author Posted December 14, 2013 so if she texts should i just ignore it?
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